My friend did most of the work starting our club. Can I still list myself as founder and president?
My friend and I started a coding club sophomore year. If I'm being honest she did most of the organizing, and it died after 3 meetings. Can I list myself as founder and president? Do colleges actually verify this kind of thing or is it basically the honor system?
We're not really friends anymore so I can't just ask her what she's putting. Everyone I know has like 3 "founder" things on their list and I have zero. It feels like the whole system rewards whoever exaggerates the most.
Edit: I did make the slides for 2 of the 3 meetings, if that changes anything
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If you would be uncomfortable with your friend reading your activity list, change the line.
Co-founder is accurate. President, if she ran it, is not, and the difference matters more than it looks.
Club titles are self-reported, but they are not read alone. Your counselor often knows which clubs exist and who runs them, a teacher recommender may be the club's sponsor, and interviewers love asking "tell me about the club you founded." A title that collapses after one follow-up question hurts more than a modest one would have helped.
Also, a club that met three times is not going to carry weight whatever you call it. Readers care about what changed because of an activity, not the title on it.
Options that are honest and better for you:
1. List it as "Co-founder, Coding Club (10th)" with weeks per year set to what really happened, and a line like "Built slides and taught 2 intro Python sessions."
2. Or leave it off and use the slot for something you did longer.
3. If coding is a real interest, restart something small now (a weekly help session, tutoring) and list that.